Demi is a digital nomad and lives in Lisbon
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This time we're not sharing the story of "another" woman, but of "our" Demi. After living in Cape Town for six months to get a taste (literally, as we visited a lot of restaurants) of life as a digital nomad She got a taste for it. She left for Bali and founded her company Luana Collective up and eventually settled (for now) in Lisbon.
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"When I worked from Cape Town for six months, I realized the digital nomad lifestyle was a perfect fit. After returning to the Netherlands, I wasn't feeling completely comfortable, and after six months, I decided to move to Australia. I didn't get there until much later, however, because the planned pit stop in Bali took much longer than I'd anticipated. After a year, I did end up going to Australia for a month-long vacation, because Bali was my new home."
Bali was fantastic and truly gave me everything I needed at the time. It's a place where you can really focus on yourself. Because I didn't really know what I wanted to do with my life and wanted to get to know myself better, I really appreciated that. I learned a lot about myself and was mainly focused on building my business, exercising, living a healthy lifestyle, and establishing a new social circle and routines. Yet, after a while, I realized it's also a place where people come and go. I started missing stability and wanted to be closer to my Dutch family and friends.
When I left for Bali, everyone was initially shocked, and I was often asked if I was okay. I knew this would be the best move for me, and secretly, those around me weren't surprised either. When I moved from Bali to Lisbon, I didn't really tell anyone. When I then suddenly announced I wasn't on vacation, but would be staying, everyone was pleasantly surprised, especially since I'm now closer to the Netherlands.
Not really. In both cases, I just went there to see if I liked it enough to want to stay. Of course, you never know that beforehand. When I found an apartment after posting a call on Instagram, I packed my suitcase and left. I love going to a place where I don't know anyone without any plans. I know I'm sociable and make friends easily, so I wasn't worried about that either. Everything will always work out as it's meant to, and if you trust that, you have nothing to lose.
"In many different ways. For example, go to a gym where you also have a bit of a community. Also when you join a co-working In a place like this, you can easily connect with other people, often freelancers or people with their own businesses. It's incredibly interesting. Once you know a few people, you'll often be asked along to dinners or events with their friends, which is how you meet people through word of mouth. But don't forget to venture out on your own too. Make sure you're really... present If you're feeling positive, look around you with an open mind, try not to always be on your phone or laptop when you're out for coffee or a walk, and try to laugh a lot. It sounds obvious, but once you radiate positivity, you'll find that positive people and events will naturally come your way.
You don't have to take anyone else into account and can just go wherever you want. I know myself and I love to explore everything. My Google Maps fills up with places I want to visit in just one day. I walk around a lot, with other people when I feel like it, and otherwise, I'm happy on my own.
"Although it is very different from what most people are used to, (full agendas months ahead, I've been there)I've learned that over-planning is never a good idea. You never know what a new place will bring, and when you're open to whatever comes your way, you'll experience all sorts of things. Even more so in Bali than in Lisbon, where everything is a bit more organized and structured. In Lisbon, there's a pop-up or event you can attend every weekend. But even here, the go with the flow lifestyle Much more present than I've noticed in the Netherlands. Transportation on an island like Bali and in a city is also very different. In Bali, you can't really walk around, and I did everything by scooter. Here I can still take an evening walk, which I missed in Bali.
My golden tip is just do it. Make sure you've established a base in a safe neighborhood where you'll live for the first month. I also always check if there are any places I should avoid, if I can wear jewelry, and which forms of transportation are reliable. I always try to make sure I have at least one or two connections in the city before I arrive, people I can meet shortly after. What also helps me feel more at home is developing the habits I had in the Netherlands. A regular gym, a coffee shop, a bakery down the street that recognizes me... it doesn't have to be anything big.
Well, I always carry a lot of stuff with me, so I travel with a lot of luggage. I always roll up my clothes, and sometimes I even use vacuum bags to fit more in my suitcase. The first time, I didn't realize that this makes my suitcase a lot heavier. So don't forget to book extra baggage allowance.
"I can be myself very well now, while I used to find that really difficult. People always said I planned my days completely. Now I feel safe everywhere; it's not about where I live, but about how I feel. I wouldn't have gained that insight if I hadn't taken the step to move abroad. So I've learned a lot about myself, and I'm very happy with my own life." company. By that I don't just mean my own company, but also my own business. By setting up a new production in Bali I also Luana Collective taken to a higher level.”