SUITCASE STORIES: Doing Good in South Africa with Diony Lalieu
Through Barts Boekje we may post plenty of (travel) tips and inspiration; we also really enjoy sharing stories and travel tips from other travel-loving women. Hence the launch of SUITCASE STORIES, a platform within a platform in collaboration with SUITSUIT where we tell stories, learnings, inspiration and share more.
As a child, Diony Lalieu moved from the Netherlands to the wilderness of South Africa. Years later, she founded an NGO, Ocean Pledge, dedicated to marine conservation. She takes women on journeys into nature to rediscover their wild selves. This is how she creates a growing community of women and local youth who feel connected to nature and are committed to its conservation.
When I was six, my parents, brother, and I moved from the Netherlands to South Africa. Growing up surrounded by nature—in a way that felt "wild and free" to me—was a stark contrast to life in the Netherlands, where I sometimes spent months cocooned indoors by the weather. My routine consisted of waking up to the song of African birds and swimming with my mother in a wild ocean toward the amber sunrise. With a bit of luck, surrounded by hundreds of dolphins. Sadly, my father suffered from a long illness and died when I was in my mid-twenties. My mother followed shortly after. Through this experience, I began to understand the power of the ocean. The ocean became my sanctuary. It taught me how deeply healing nature can be, even under the most difficult circumstances. Through this experience, I also began to understand systems theory: the interconnectedness of all aspects of a living system. When one aspect fails, it impacts the whole, and a cohesive approach is needed to restore balance.
My path to doing-good went from healing, surfing, and love for the sea to wanting to save the ocean. And then first throughout the country plastic waste pledge trying to collect, which then evolved into inspiring and empowering local youth, who then also become committed to preserving healthy marine life.
After graduating in psychology, I started working as a research psychologist for major brands, specializing in consumer behavior change. Watching my two daughters grow up changed something. It sounds cliché, but it was only then that my perspective shifted to the bigger picture and long-term thinking. Suddenly, the brands I'd initially been enthusiastic about working for seemed profit-driven, sometimes unethical, and wasteful. The turning point came when I competed in a national longboarding competition. A truckload of plastic water bottles was handed out to ocean-loving athletes—which was utterly bizarre, considering how harmful plastic bottles are to marine life. At that moment, I vowed never to buy water in a plastic bottle again. This had a profound impact on me: it made me aware of all the single use I used plastic. I noticed that my new behavior had an impact on others, who began to change their behavior somewhat. This motivated me to gather ocean-related pledges within my community and eventually to establish an NGO called Ocean Pledge.
In addition to collecting pledges, Ocean Pledge focuses on education and women empowermentIn South Africa, issues like poverty, crime, and youth unemployment are considered far more urgent than plastic floating in our oceans. To initiate greater conservation efforts for nature, it is effective to equip and empower our disadvantaged youth. Our #VoiceoftheOceans program aims to grow a network of Ocean AmbassadorsWe do this by teaching speaking skills that can be used in all aspects of life, exposing these young people to thought leaders in marine conservation and by creating a love for the ocean. You only protect what you love, and many of these young people have never played in the sea. So far, we have 96 graduates Ocean Ambassadors who use their leadership skills in community projects, while building self-confidence, work experience and more climate-resilient communities.
Last year I turned 50, and once again the creative winds of change are blowing. This time, I wanted to combine my passions for psychology, conservation, and adventure. So I went back to studying to be a nature guide. In my ongoing quest to connect people with nature and their inner WILDness, I create journeys focused on adventures in the spectacular South African wilderness. Ecotherapy is used to foster a sense of personal resilience and transformation. Adventure and nature become both guides and mirrors, offering lessons in resilience, connection, and authentic living.
And honestly, the timing couldn't have been better: the pressures of modern life, money focus, an increasingly virtual reality and the drive for productivity have left many of us exhausted, unfulfilled and disconnected from what truly matters: our health, our connection to each other and the rhythms of nature, and to our inner WILD self.
I'd like to encourage women to pack their bags and seek experiences in the wild African wilderness to rediscover our inner WILD, pause, and recharge. Healing ourselves also means healing the earth. The indigenous San peoples, who have lived in harmony with nature on these African lands for tens of thousands of years, teach us that everything is rooted in gratitude and reciprocity between ourselves and nature.
The journeys we will make are an opportunity to remind ourselves of the interconnectedness of everything and to feel the WILD awakening within us again. A journey of realignment and rewildingA helpful step if we want to continue living in harmony with ourselves, each other, and nature, especially now that many of us feel we are increasingly losing that.
I hope to have reconnected thousands of people with their own wild essence. With a thriving travel business, I can contribute to the restoration of nature, by making more people aware of the reciprocity of nature and living a life dedicated to its preservation. This is based on the understanding of the interconnectedness of all things, a knowledge that our ancestors once possessed intrinsically.
A portion of the profits will continue to support Ocean Pledge's work in growing a network of youth ambassadors with the skills and passion to protect our oceans for future generations.