The NetherlandsApril 3, 2024, by Sascha Laks

A guide for a comfortable date: these tips and tricks can help

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The Netherlands, April 3, 2024, by Sascha Laks

A guide for a comfortable date: these tips and tricks can help

Dating... Well the single lifee; Every now and then you have to believe it. And when the planned date arrives, those sloshing armpits already start. Just a little guide to avoid downing a glass of wine out of panic, just before you leave the house to go to your date. How to date?

Breeze, yes please

Breeze, yes please

Meeting someone just like that is difficult these days. Because yes, there are only a few who meet that set of requirements. That's why as far as we're concerned Breeze the best choice. The nice thing about this app is that it helps you on your way to a nice, safe and fun date.

But how does that work? If there is a match on both sides, Breeze will immediately start planning the date. And the talking stage? Skip that trade immediately. There is no chat button in the app, so you only see and speak to each other on location. Saves a lot of texting back and forth, right? Once the date is planned, the location and time will be announced via Breeze. Then it's just a matter of showing up at the (right) destination.

Outfit stress

Outfit stress

The entire wardrobe will be on the bed in no time. Pulling out all the stops is suddenly taken very literally. But it's for a good cause. Because it is difficult to choose the right outfit. Isn't one pair of pants too neat, and the other one too baggy? Do we wear nice shoes? Or are sturdy boots more appropriate? If we can give a tip: try every outfit you have in mind, and then wear the clothes that make you feel most chill. Yep, pretty cliché, but it's true. Because let's be honest, your outfit is also a bit of your self-confidence.

Accewatts?

Accewatts?

Phew, finally won the outfit competition. So, out the door, let's go. But still something is missing. Oh yes! The accessories should definitely not be forgotten. Creating an outfit depends on the right accessories. From scarf to necklace, whether it is subtle or just a... eyecatcher, it all depends on your own style.

No inspiration? Or would you like to score a new item for the date? Amsterdam is full of those nice shops with accessories. So just one nice list of shops where the accessory search will be a success anyway.

What's in my bag

What's in my bag

Then briefly about the bag, because the contents of the bag say something about you, right?

It may not be that black and white, but a well-stocked and prepared bag is never a bad idea. Because you never know with those first dates.

Therefore a checklist:

  • Wallet. With bank card/healthcare card/driving license/ID, you never know where the evening will end. Maybe in Paris?
  • Mini perfume. To seduce the person in front of you with your wonderful perfume.
  • Chewing gum/mints. In any case, fresh breath gives you more self-confidence. And every little bit helps on a date, right?
  • Mini deo. There's a good chance (everyone has this) that it will still be exciting in the beginning, so just to be on the safe side.
  • Sunglasses. Even when the sun isn't shining, just leave it in that bag.
  • Game of cards. To break the ice.
  • Charger. An empty battery is always annoying.
  • Underwear. For the next morning? *wink wink*

Let's begin

Let's begin

The preparations are done, time to believe in it. Get on the bike, train or car. On to that date. Once the bike is parked and it's time to get inside, those nerves will suddenly really kick in. Logical too. Because what are you going to talk about? Here are a few questions lined up to spark some fun (and light-hearted) conversation topics:

  • What is your favorite song at the moment?
  • What did you want to be when you grew up? And are you happy with where you are now?
  • Do you have a family tradition at home?
  • When you're in the kitchen, what's your go-to recipe?
  • Brothers or sisters?
  • Would you rather have wine and cheese or beer and bitterballen?
  • What does your perfect date look like?
  • Indoor fitness or an outdoor (team) athlete?
  • The best binge series right now?
  • What did you buy with your first paycheck?

Everything comes to an end

Everything comes to an end

There's a good chance that with this one Tips and tricks from above the conversations were far from finished. Thank goodness, because that means there's plenty to discuss for a second date, right? Everything comes to an end, including this first date. The bill is asked and the burning question hangs between the two.

Splitting is an option, making him/her pay is an option, and then: 'love you, I'll pay next time' is also an option. Whoops, that second date is in the pocket right away! Easy peasy, However?

Need inspiration for your second date? And that´s it

So are you still looking for a date? Breeze can be downloaded at Apple en Android devices. Breeze can be used in 15 cities in the Netherlands (and also in Belgium and Germany).

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